I didn't have the time to put up a proper response on Friday, so I'm going to respond to the guest entry by Lady Raine. I've taken a look at some of the comments, and I have to say that they were what I was expecting. Let me start off by saying that most of the guys who are saying that they wouldn't bang her are lying through their teeth. I've taken a look at her pics, and assuming that she actually looks like them, most of you guys would bang her. For her age, she has a nice face and is in shape. That being said, I believe that most men attack her because she does kind of have this aura of "no guy can have me, and he must be absolutely perfect".

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I believe that she puts up a front of sorts. Why do I say that? because I've dated and slept with BBW like her; the feministic types. They all have the same or very similar attitudes. I believe that the only reason she reacts the way she does is because she feels like she is always under attack. Have you ever argued with someone just for the sake of arguing? This usually happens when someone makes a harsh comment about you and you feel like you have no choice but to say something harsh back as a defensive measure. To give you an example, when I first met Mahal (a hardcore feminist), The Peacemaker made some kind of comment on the role of chubby women, and she immediately lashed out at him. Now take a look at me. I oftentimes feel the same way as other men do, however, I go about saying things differently. For one, I don't open my mouth about the roles of busty women unless asked. And secondly, I tend to say things in an aware type of way. In other ways, I'm a little more sensitive when I speak about issues like that. For instance, when Mahal was finished arguing with The Peacemaker, she asked me what I thought about the role of women. Unlike the Peacemaker who took more of an aggressive stance, I took a step back and actually thought about my response. I basically said the same thing he said, but in a less offensive type of way. That's how you have to come at BBW like Lady Raine. You can still say and be for things that other men are for, but you just have to say it in a non-offensive manner. I am very masculine and aggressive with my plus size women. I still lead the way, and I still decide things. Notice the difference. Instead of saying things to piss feminists off, I just do them. For example, the typical guy might say "Women should always follow the lead of men.", while I will just keep my mouth shut and just lead. Every single feminist that I have dated has followed my lead without complaint, and that's because I don't try to be offensive by starting petty arguments over nothing.

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I've noticed that a lot of guys try to belittle her. Not just her, but guys always try to belittle any women that behaves in a masculine type of way (i.e. holding a job meant for a man). If you pay attention to her posts, it's pretty obvious that she wants to be recognized for being a machinist. Again, I tend to date a lot of women in law school, a lot of women that are into computers, and a lot of BBW that are into politics. I never treat them in a "you're a busty woman, so you are irrelevant" type of way. Instead, I just sit back, let them talk, and appreciate whatever it is that they do. A lot of men feel threatened by these types of women, so they try to belittle them. If you try to belittle almost ANY educated women, she will lash out at you.

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I believe that her choice of men is more like a wish list. I don't believe for one instant that she only dates one type of guy. I for one have dated and slept with BBW that never considered being with a black guy. Sure, they may want a certain thing, but never forget that women operate mostly on how you make them feel. If you're a guy that makes her feel good and knows how to flip her sexual triggers, then you will totally be able to get her. She said that she attracts younger men. I believe that she dates them because younger men are more respectful than men that are the same age or older. Usually, when a younger guy dates an older busty woman, he tends to be a little more submissive, and easier to mold. A younger guy dating an older woman tends to be a little more sex starved (usually, not always), so he is a lot more careful of what he says, and is quicker to back down when his chubby woman confronts him.

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She says that she doesn't want a relationship. I'm not buying that one bit. What that translates to is "I can't find a guy that I actually like". She presents herself as the strong busty woman "I don't need a man" type. If anything, I will say that she was severely scared in one of her relationships, and her avoiding relationships is just her way of protecting herself from letting it happen again. I would guess that relationships give her anxiety and causes her to think "When is this guy going to hurt me?"; hence why she avoids them; she doesn't want to deal with he anxiety. In a sense, it's as if she sets men up for failure by having all of these unrealistic rules and standards for them to meet. Deep down, she knows that almost no man is going to meet her standards (other than a wuss boy, but that contradicts what turns her on sexually. A witty strong silent type isn't going to be the wuss type.). The guy that turns her on is precisely the guy that she wouldn't date long term. If she really wants to be loved, then she is going to have to give up a little and just deal with a guy that is a little flawed.

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After reading her post, it is pretty clear to me that she is willing to bend around her rules and standards some. That is why some of you guys are able to find contradictions in her posts. She isn't saying that game won't work on her. She's only saying that because men constantly attack her. I'm willing to bet that if you approached her the right way, and wasn't so confrontational and belittling, game would work on her and she would concede on a few of her standards. Even if she knew you were gaming her, she'd probably let it happen if your approach was right. Just my thoughts.

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